26th November 2017

Collaring

This is a post by my personal slave, Rose Satin, about an event that was very special for both of us. The day of her collaring.

“I’d planned to meet Mistress at the Stockport dungeon on Thursday this week. It had been a while since we had managed to find time to play so I was looking forward to it. On Sunday, however, she surprised me with a message that she wished to go shopping and to let her know a day before Thursday I could meet her.

“She then told me that she wished to go shopping for my collar. Mistress Sakura's personal slave

“I was, of course, very excited because I knew what this meant. Mistress intended to formally collar me as part of our session on Thursday. We met and spent a good while picking out a suitable collar and tag combination and then getting it engraved with my name and, most exciting of all, that I was the personal slave of Mistress. I was then given the collar and tag to take home with me and instructed to bring them both to the dungeon.

“On the day of the session, I met Mistress for lunch and we had a pleasant time eating and talking before getting a taxi to the dungeon. Once there, I was instructed to be naked and kneel in front of Mistress, passing her the collar. She told me that before she collared me, she wanted me to tell her ten reasons why I was being considered as her slave.

“I found this far more difficult than I thought I would. I stumbled over thinking of more than four. I kept restating the same ones in different ways, which obviously did not count. So, Mistress put down the collar and ordered me onto the spanking bench – chaining my wrists and ankles to it. She then told me that I needed some punishment to focus my mind so that the collaring could continue. She worked on with her hands and then a series of paddles. When she had finished, she unlocked me from the bench, leaving the cuffs and spreader bar on, and had me kneel in front of her again. She repeated the question she had asked before.

Mistress Sakura's boots“This time I was able to give better answers. I was aware that I was being reluctant to speak of my achievements and qualities and to prove myself worthy of her I had to recognise those parts of me. It was still a difficult task but this time I managed ten. Mistress then smiled and said a few words of her own about why she chose me before she put the collar around my neck and made me hers.

“It was a very simple collaring ceremony but all the more poignant because of it. An emotional transition point between states. After it was over we continued with the session and when I left I was taking with me my collar, wearing the chastity device that she had locked on me and feeling more owned than ever.”

A collaring can be a simple, private ceremony between the two individuals involved or it can be a more elaborate and public event. The important thing is that it is a personal event that means something to those involved. A formal declaration of two people committing to each other in the BDSM lifestyle.

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3rd November 2017

Dinner Date with Mistress

Imagine meeting me for dinner in a luxurious restaurant. My choice, of course. Somewhere quiet and discreet with a selection of exotic foods. You take my coat and pull out a seat for me, making sure I am comfortable before taking your own seat. We exchange pleasantries while waiting to order. We peruse the menu and make selections. I have a refined palette that craves different flavours and sensations. Nothing pleases me more than being treated to something new. I might suggest something for you to try, or you might suggest something for me. The food arrives and we eat. Dinner with Mistress Sakura

While we eat, we talk. We discuss you and what you are like as a person. We discuss BDSM interests and your limits. We get to know each other and I delve deep into your mind so as to understand you and your kinks better. This allows me to build a better rapport with you than might be possible in a more traditional session where you meet me at the dungeon. We may have dessert, something indulgent. If I feel you deserve it. There may be coffee afterwards. We take our time, enjoying the experience and the anticipation of what is to come later.

Once our meal is done and you have paid the bill, we move on. You help me into my coat. We travel together to the dungeon where I put what I have learned to good use…

I believe in providing a more rounded and holistic view of BDSM in my sessions. I consider communication before and after a session to be important and am big on aftercare. Part of this is getting to know you better before we session. A dinner date with me is one way to achieve that in a very pleasant atmosphere.

My dinner date package includes a 2 hour session in the dungeon following our meal. For this you pay £400 and, of course, pick up the bill.

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17th October 2017

Interrogation

There is nothing like a good interrogation scene. A bare walled room. A single chair adorned with straps. A naked submissive, tied and vulnerable. A cruel and severe Mistress who wants answers to her many questions… who will break first? Sub or Domme?

What am I saying, of course it will be the sub… Domme Sakura interrogates her victim

Interrogation is very much an example of edge play. It plays on all the tropes from fiction and a dominant might use any method to extract the information she wants. Those exposed nipples, those dangling balls, they are all open for being played with. There are many clamps and weights that could be applied. I might use breath control, restrict your oxygen for a time to see if that makes you willing to talk. I could also get out the electrics. See what I can achieve with a Violet wand or a TENs device. Then there are more traditional methods of corporal punishment. Crops, whips, paddles and other impact devices. The traditional rubber hose of secret police the world over. Also, have you ever considered how painful a solid glue stick can be when it hits your tender flesh?

This week at the Stockport Dungeon, Mistress Luci and I have been yearning for some interrogation play. So much so we are offering a discount this week to any who book such a session… contact me on domme.sakura@gmail.com to book your slot in the chair…

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1st October 2017

A weekend of chastity – Day 2

This is Rose’s second report on her experience as a sissy chastity slave.

“There was a gap between watching the porn and the next task, which was to take place at 8pm. I filled the time with housework and cooking dinner and trying to forget about the ever present weight of the device on my cock. I am not sure how those in longer term chastity cope with that. I guess they just get used to it. My arousal and therefore distraction did go away after a while, to the point that the device felt more comfortable so maybe I was adapting to it enough to no longer feel it.Freedom from Chastity

“At 8pm, my orders were to use a ‘phallic object of my choice’ wrapped in a condom to try to achieve milking of my prostate. At our last meeting, Mistress had done this using her fingers. I found it to be a lot harder to achieve when trying to do it yourself. I used a carrot as that was the only thing I had in the house that was appropriate. It took some time to find the place where the pressure was clearly having an effect but even then it was hard to achieve much sensation. I kept getting close to the point where I felt I could push out something but then lost the momentum and had to fight to get it back. The orders stated that I was to try my best. I did not get the impression she expected me to succeed. After a while I managed to achieve a little fluid in my hand and decided to try for more would be too exhausting. I sent Mistress the proof and prepared for my evening.

“For that I was told to change my underwear into a more comfortable set. On our shopping trip a few weeks ago, Mistress had directed me to buy a bralette and panties set – a non underwired bra for use by those still developing breasts or who have very small ones. I was to wear this set and to keep it on all night while I slept.

“I spent the rest of the evening trying to relax and ignore the demands of my aroused cock.

“Overnight was easier than the previous night. I found it easier to sleep and the device seemed more comfortable. Maybe milking had relieved some of the pressure or I was just getting more used to not being able to satisfy myself at will. Maybe it was the thought that morning would bring release from the cage (if not necessarily permission to cum).

“In the morning, the orders were to watch another porn of my choice and send evidence of this to Mistress in the form of a link and a report on why I chose it. I chose a piece that was centred around predicament bondage and electroplay as well as strap on because I love those elements. I was then to take the key out of the freezer and photograph it to prove it was still locked in ice then leave it to melt. I was told I could remove the device at 12. In the meantime, Mistress had sent me a task to write a short story about the fictional life of Rose Satin. There were parameters set for this. It had to include scenes of getting made up to go out, seducing men, forced bi, anal sex and white high heels. This was to be sent to Mistress after the 12pm release. I actually finished this in plenty of time and was then left waiting… an hour to release. That hour seemed to drag.

Owned by Domme Sakura, Manchester Mistress “Finally, I was able to put the key in the lock and open it up. I took the final photo, set up as Mistress demanded, and sent it along with the story.

“Overall, I have enjoyed this weekend of having my orgasms controlled. Even more than I did for the Seven Day Itch. This was because the device added a whole new layer of control. I thought I was able to control my orgasms adequately and, when I do have control of my own In can go days without needing anything at all. However, the device put any level of control out of my reach and totally in the hands of my Keyholder. There was very little I could do to achieve any form of pleasure. When doing the seven day itch I knew I could always still stroke myself. I could not orgasm but I could get pleasure from the touch. With the device there was no way to achieve much more than a frustrating level of touch through the holes in the plastic and stroking my balls – which just made things worse.

“I have found my experience this weekend to have strengthened my submission to Domme Sakura. I was actually regretting the device coming off, even though it frustrated me so much. I look forward to many other experiences like this in the future.”

If you would like Domme Sakura Strike to control your chastity, contact her on domme.sakura@gmail.com

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7th September 2017

Slavery and Financial domination

This is a post from the point of view of one of my slaves:

“I have served Mistress Sakura for just over a year now. In that time I have done many things for her, including helping to keep her house clean, reorganising her shoe collection and helping her dress. Over this time I have been considering what it means to be a personal, lifestyle slave to a Mistress.Domme Sakura, Manchester's beautiful Mistress

The one aspect of slavery that I keep coming back to is the simple phrase of ‘making her life easier’. This, I think, is where you have the flip between being a submissive who visits a ProDomme to being a true lifestyle slave. Being the former is fun, it involves lots of kink and satisfies many needs. However, to take that next step into being a lifestyle submissive, you need to change your viewpoint and put her needs above yours.

So when there was a pair of shoes she wanted, I offered to pay for them. I also pay for her monthly phone bill and for her to have a monthly cinema card. These things I do not out of expectation of any reward but because I feel it is important for me to help her. Though I do not expect anything in return, she does appreciate my efforts and will often give rewards for such gifts. Sometimes this might be a public thank you and a photo of her in the items bought on Twitter. Other times it may be a special treat in session. An item bought might be worn or used, for example.”

Enter Domme Sakura's chambers at your own riskFinancial domination often gets a bad name. It can be seen as more or less begging, the dominant basically asks for money with no return promised. However it is not always the case. I believe a dominant should be generous to her supplicants, acknowledging their gifts and tribute. If you choose to serve me in this way you will be rewarded for your tribute in an appropriate manner. I also see issues with other financial practises such as blackmail. While I do not condemn those who do engage in it and recognise it as a fun kink for some, I find it is usually not worth the time and effort needed to make it work properly.

However, I do appreciate it if a submissive client does something nice for me. Sends me an Amazon voucher. Buy me something from my Wishlist. Or even just brings me a small gift to a session when they visit. You can even offer to adopt one of my Bills or offer to take me shopping or out for dinner. I am always open to small tokens like this and will always reward them.

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22nd August 2017

Corporal Punishment

I do like inflicting pain on my submissives. I take a lot of pleasure in watching them squirm in their bonds while I walk around their helpless body, looking for good spots to strike. I might stroke my crop over their quivering flesh, making them whimper in anticipation. Or I might lightly tap at their balls or flick at their nipples. Nothing too drastic. Not at first. I make them wait for the real pain.Domme Sakura inflicts pain

Then a build up. Some lashes across the naked backside that come suddenly, causing them to yelp in surprise. But not too much pain yet. I might make them count each strike and thank me for the privilege of me deigning to hurt them. Each stroke they must call out a number followed by “Thank you, Mistress Sakura.” Each time they fail to count or thank me clearly adds another to the number they must endure. How many strokes they must endure depends on how generous I am feeling.

As the punishment progresses, the pain builds. Not only is each stroke harder and faster than the last but the sub is running out of places to be hit that have not already endured the crop. I place red welts on their buttocks and down the backs of their legs, each slashing strike leaving a vivid reminder of what I did that they will take home with them. A welt lasts longer than a kiss.

Red welts on bottom by Domme SakuraI do enjoy working with masochists. I like the sensation of absolute power I feel when they willingly submit to me and allow me to torment them with my tools. I have often used canes, floggers and paddles on submissives but my true weapon of choice has to be the riding crop. This is because of the level of control I can achieve with it – every strike made in a precise spot and to an exact pressure. Nothing is left to chance and every mark made is there because I intended it. I feel a crop is one of the most useful tools in a Domme’s arsenal. It can be sensual as well as painful and those two combined create powerful sensations.

I have recently been working in a dungeon specialising in pain in London, where I have had the pleasure of working with some very capable masochists. I am also seeing pain sluts at the Stockport dungeon. If you think you are a masochist capable of enduring my attentions, email me…
domme.sakura@gmail.com

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16th July 2017

Slavery

This is a post by personal slave of mine.

Domme Sakura flowers from a slave

“Mistress Sakura was kind enough to remind me this week that it has been a year since I first started serving her. I was actually surprised as it had not occurred to me that it had been that long since we had first started on this journey. She asked me today to write about my experiences as her personal slave.

As a personal slave I have a number of duties and some privileges. For example, one of my responsibilities is to do work around her house. This can include DIY, for example I recently sanded and varnished the floor of her apartment for her, but also more day to day tasks such as cleaning and tidying her bedroom and hovering her floors. She has on occasion asked me to pick up shopping for her or to do some online research into BDSM toys she is considering buying for her dungeon or clothes she wants to buy for her professional work – finding the best prices.

shibari tied for electroplayI have also had the privilege of acting as a guinea pig for that equipment – allowing her to practise so that she can be proficient with it when using it on a client. I sometimes also act as a model for her experiments in shibari, standing while she works out the intricate knots and loops of rope. Another duty is helping her to dress – making sure her corset is pulled as tight as possible and zipping up her boots before she sees a client.

Because I am her personal slave, she does have all my contact information and can use them at any time. I have had messages from her at all times of day. Sometimes she asks for help with something, on other occasions she just wants to talk. Sometimes there are specific tasks to perform. The feeling of always being ‘on call’ is quite an exciting one. You never know when she will message or what she will want when she does.collared slave

When I have served her well, she rewards me by indulging some of my own kinks in a session. For these sessions, I wear a collar which has on it a tag that shows I am her slave.

In all my time as Mistress Sakura’s slave I have enjoyed the feel of being under her control. Knowing that she is my Mistress and that what I do for her helps her focus more on her practise as a Domme. I have found her to be a caring and considering Mistress who is appropriately firm when needed and always thinks about the wellbeing of her slaves. I hope to continue to serve as her slave for a long time to come.”

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25th December 2016

Merry Christmas to all


I would just like to take a break from my own celebrations to wish you all a very Merry Christmas. I hope that yours is a good one and that you have a happy new year!christmas

There is a lot of kink to be found in Christmas. You can wrap a slave up in colourful paper and ribbons, tightly bound and waiting to be ‘opened’ in the morning. You can decorate his manhood with tinsel and glitter or dangle tree ornaments from it. Holly is a fun plant to play with too. Those sharp spikes are great for inflicting some pain or even for some more sensual play – stroking them gently over naked flesh. Then there is mistletoe. What fun could we have with that? Well, we could dangle some from one slave’s belly and tell the other he has to ‘kiss’ under the mistletoe.

There are always Christmas games to consider too. Charades being one with lots of potential. Of course, the slaves all do this naked and many of the things they have to enact will be humiliating. Finally, there is Christmas dinner. Served by naked slaves, of course. The slaves eat theirs from their dog bowls once the Dommes have all finished and if they have been good boys, we end the day with some fun in the dungeon.

However you celebrate this time of year, make sure you enjoy it. Mistress commands it!

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28th August 2016

Shopping

I do love it when a slave takes me shopping.

Manchester Mistress Sakura goes shoppingA few days ago I had just that. I went with a slave to Manchester city centre to tour all the shops in search of things to make Mistress happy. He had his wallet all out and ready so that he could satisfy my every whim.

We spent a wonderful few hours visiting several shops including Selfridges and Boux Avenue. This was because, as always, I was looking for more sexy lingerie to tease those slaves who come to visit me. I am sure those of you who know me understand my love of pretty, lacy underwear. You can see some of my haul of pretties in the photo.

The day ended with food and drinks. I took my slave to a restaurant for a gourmet lunch and cocktails. He paid, of course. I enjoyed exquisite nibbles and sipped wonderful drinks while he watched.  I do feel that it is important to spoil your Mistress because a happy Mistress is a generous Mistress. A Mistress who might reward you with some much needed attention when we return to the dungeon.

In all a most enjoyable day. My slave even managed to budget sensibly. At the end of my spree, I had £120 left which I think I may spend on something fun for the dungeon…

If you want to take me shopping or on a dinner date or escort me to a kink night, you can send me an e-mail to domme.sakura@gmail.com.

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24th August 2016

Knife play

Manchester Mistress Sakura engages in knife playThere is something very beautiful about an edge – shiny, slender and dangerous. A knife can be an elegant tool in sensual BDSM or a vicious threat in more severe edge play. Like me I suppose you can never tell which it will be from moment to moment.

Imagine a submissive tied to a chair. He is naked, his arms are secured behind him and his ankles to the legs of the chair. He might be hooded – so he cannot see what I am about to do to him – or he may be left with his eyes open so he can savour the sight of the sharp blade moving over his oh so delicate skin. It is dark and I am somewhere in the room, stalking him with my blade out ready. Delicate scratches on his skin, slight pricks with the point. Not enough to mark, not enough to draw blood, but enough to know it is there and it could go deeper if I chose. It’s not as if he can do anything to stop me.

I may use my knife to tickle his balls or trace my name on his cock with the point. Maybe he will beg me to stop and I will ask him what he will give me if I promised to do so. What would you offer a cruel Dominatrix who has a knife to your balls? Everything? Eternal service? Something from her wishlist perhaps? Whatever you offer, it may not be enough.

If you want to feel my blade, you can send me an e-mail on domme.sakura@gmail.com. My chair and blade awaits.

 

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